Yes Ma'am You are so right and i for one love it. It is an honor to serve my wife do as told when told with no questions asked. Also to accept whatever discipline and punishment She sees fit to pass out and to thanks Her fr caring enough to make me a better boy and act as i should.
It does teach a lesson for sure. Taking time to do it makes it sting and burn longer and more intense. i have received leather many times in both just play and for punishment. It leaves soreness that can be felt for a few days and nice marks as well